ask me first!

I was having dinner with friends when she received call from her friend :

" Oh, i'm now having dinner with friends. You should join us... "

And immediately she sensed a very strong and powerful bitch-stare from me. And she realized she did something wrong, by inviting stranger ( to me ) to our gathering/meeting. Cos she knows, i'll extremely uncomfortable with people who i met for first time and most likely end up keep quiet the whole night. Not that i'm cold or arrogant, but i just dunno how to socialize with strangers.

I got a few friends who always check on the guest list before decided to join the gathering/dinner. If there's new name, then most likely you won't see us there. ;p

Do you like to have surprise guests/ strangers in your gathering/ party?

One more thing that my friends will ask me first before doing anything .. buying me presents.
Cos i received complaints from friends every Christmas that i am extremely hard to shop for. ;p